DEAR MISS ADVENTURE:  I was wondering if you would be able to tell me. What I am looking for is, how would a guy who is curious about the lifestyle get into it?  I am not sure if I would be dom, sub, or switch, and I am not sure how far I am willing to go.  Unless you're looking for someone to train, which would be awesome, but otherwise, if you could tell me how to find someone, that would be really helpful. - Kinkster Lifestyler

Dear KL - Miss A is flattered, but presently, she's pleasantly over-served.  Back to your question....  Ask a bank robber why they rob banks and they'll say -that's where the money is.  People are much the same way, you need to leave your home and open an account in person to connect.  And I don't mean email account.  Put some "life" into your lifestyle search and show up.  Luckily, the Boston area offers plenty of great opportunities to meet other live, like-minded folks; together you can work out all the juicy details. READ MORE HERE...