Interview with Princess Kali

by Scarlet Apron

For most people, a foot massage is an occasional, luxurious treat. For others, it's a lifestyle. Meet Princess Kali, the kicker behind New England's premier foot fetish parties. An engaging, twenty-eight year old transplant from California, Kali (real name withheld) is a former go-go dancer that has since left her high heeled mark on the east coast erotic scene. As an A-type businesswoman, Princess Kali is on her lacquered toes with a line of videos and a hopping events calendar. Here, her dogs are barking, in a good way.

Any early indications that you would be a reigning femdom? 

Many. When I was six, I had what I liked to call "helpers." I lived out in the country in the central valley farm area and grew up around boys. I basically ran circles around them. Whenever we played, it was "Queen of the Army" or "Bitchy CEO." When you look back, this stuff pops up early.

For people who don't get it, why feet?

We've been taught that tits, ass and pussy are the key stimulants, but the feet are powerful, too. For some people, the scent and shape of a foot is very sensual, with all those magnificent crannies you can discover with your mouth or nose or fingers. And having a foot massage is a very relaxing experience. For women, who often have a difficult time relaxing, it's perfect. There are lots of nerves that run from the feet to the genitalia, so you're being stimulated at the same time. Men should feel empowered, not just submissive, when they give their partner so much pleasure this way.

What goes on at a foot night party?

It's a safe place, by which I mean, non-judgmental. Some guys go to strip clubs and try to worship feet and the girls just don't understand. Foot night is about everyone being there for the same reason. It's where women who enjoy having their feet worshipped meet men who are into sucking toes, so there's this sense of coming home. It's a mix of foot sniffing, licking and kissing, foot worshipping, tickling and trampling.

Who attends your parties?

Men of high intelligence and creativity; entrepreneurial types; cleancut, respectful, normal guys.

Best part of being domination royalty? 

Just how much fun it is!! I get to play dress up. I get be a princess. I get to ride on human ponies. I get to have men buy me delicious shoes as tributes. And I get to engage with people in a way that they don't get in their outside life. I've had couples say, that for the one hour a month they are with me, it's the one hour they get to be truly themselves. It's an honor to provide that experience.

Worst part?

Is dealing with society's misunderstandings and negativity. Ironic, since it's a multibillion dollar industry yet I still have to fight for my right to be a small business that happens to center around adult sexuality.

Things you do to relax?

Relax?!! You can't run an empire and relax!  I am too busy conquering the prejudices against sexuality and the sex industry and educating people.

Music in your IPod?

I've been listing to hip hop, booty shakin' music like Kanye West, Jem and "Miss You" by the Rolling Stones.  Music you just wanna strut your stuff to!!!!

Celebrity you'd like licking your heels?

Brad Pitt, Matt Damon and George Clooney, all at once.

Who are your heroes?

Madonna, Gloria Steinem, my mother.

Food you can be seduced with?

Dark chocolate and mangoes.

Princess Kali will be at the Fetish Fair Fleamarket, February 13-14th with a booth and teaching two workshops; Managing Multiple Submissives and The Lazy Tops Guide to a Creative and Exciting Scene. Check her out at www.PrincessKali.com and http://www.kinkpositive.com/. HER NEXT FOOT FETISH PARTY IS MARCH 24TH, MORE INFORMATION GO TO WWW.FOOTNIGHT.COM

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