I SUSPECT YOU'VE STRUCK A NERVE WITH WOMEN WHO HAVE HAD SIMILAR EXPERIENCES WITH MEN AND CHILDREN. COULD YOU OFFER ADVICE TO THOSE OF US WHO FIND OURSELVES SO ENTANGLED? Eat more green vegetables? I see the world as a place where the tragic and the comic stroll hand-in-hand, where the sacred and the absurd sit elbow-to-elbow. Having a sense of humor — dark as it may be — is the only way I know how to get through the day.
Emily Parkhurst can be reached at emily.parkhurst@yahoo.com.
I'M SORRY YOU FEEL THAT WAY |by Diana Joseph | Amy Einhorn/Putnam | 208 pages | $23.95 | imsorryyoufeelthatway.blogspot.com
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