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Personally speaking

Abortion and Life tells whole truths
By DEIRDRE FULTON  |  September 24, 2008

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"I had an abortion: A Portland woman’s story," by Anonymous

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For decades, feminists have rallied behind the phrase “the personal is political,” meant to remind us that our personal lives (including our reproductive choices) are intrinsically affected by politics. Yet even while they remind society that public acts can penetrate private spheres, many members of the pro-choice movement still shy away from telling personal abortion stories, finding it more comfortable to talk about reproductive rights as intangible concepts rather than concrete situations.

This keeps the pro-choice cause stagnant, and struggling to be relevant to a wider audience. It also hurts women who have had abortions. Jennifer Baumgardner’s new book, Abortion and Life (Akashic Books) is one step toward shifting that paradigm, first by acknowledging that many people (feminists included) are still “afraid to discuss abortion in polite company,” and then by underscoring the importance of storytelling.

Part of the lingering stigma attached to abortion is based on anti-choice rhetoric and scare tactics. But just as insidious is the pro-choice movement’s reluctance to delve into the emotional nuance that comes with terminating an unplanned pregnancy. For example, it’s largely unacceptable for a pro-choice woman to be ambivalent about her own abortion (she would seem too vulnerable). Nor is it considered appropriate for a woman to express an excess of relief, or an outright absence of emotion, about the event (too callous). It’s as though women’s experiences of abortion have been passed through a filter for years, with only “on-message” stories allowed to reach the public. The results: a society that still considers abortion a clandestine act; a diverse group of women who feel both isolated and lumped together; and a movement that feels quite impersonal and manufactured, focused single-mindedly on a concept rather than a reality.

Enter Baumgardner’s “pro-voice” strategy, which started taking shape in 2004. That year, as a throwback to second-wave feminist efforts in the 1970s “to put a face on this diverse issue,” she made the first batch of T-shirts that read: “I had an abortion.” The T-shirts, distributed first at an abortion-rights march in Washington DC and then nationwide through Planned Parenthood, were wildly popular (and controversial) — more than she’d ever expected them to be — and indicated an untapped desire among women to destigmatize the abortion experience.

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GLORIA STEINEM: The pioneering feminist is
one of many who tells her story in the book.
Meanwhile, Baumgardner had begun work on the documentary Speak Out: I Had An Abortion, released by SpeakOut Films in 2005. In collecting money and stories for that documentary, she found scores of women aching for an outlet to speak about their abortions in an honest way — to become stories instead of stereotypes. And in letting them do so, she outlined a new direction for the pro-choice movement.

“In encouraging women to tell their stories, we hope to demonstrate that women might have complex, or even painful, experiences with abortion, but they are still grateful to have had access to the procedure — very, very grateful,” she wrote in her mission letter for the film.

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Re: Personally speaking
 Women who have abortions come in all sizes, shapes, ages, colors, religions, and ethnicities. How to deal with an unplanned pregnancy is an event in our lives but it does not define our lives. Statistically, over 50% of women who get abortions in the US are under age 25, over 60% are already mothers. If the religious right-wing were pass the laws they want, all of these young women would be criminals. Does that make any sense? Readers can learn more from first-hand personal abortion stories at http://www.fwhc.org/stories/ - a website sponsored by the Feminist Women's Health Center in Washington State. 
By Joan Schrammeck on 09/26/2008 at 11:04:53
Re: Personally speaking
Ms. Baumgardner asks, "Why aren't there more after-abortion resources?" There are. Simon & Schuster published The Healing Choice: Your Guide to Emotional Recovery After an Abortion. My co-writer, Dr. Dana Dovitch, and I are Pro-Choice women. We wrote our book with a non-political and non-religious bias -- truly! It is in print and women (and men) have called, written and emailed us to share that it is very helpful. Just because they didn't make a mistake, doesn't mean that they don't have feelings that need attention. It is normal. Thanks you, Dr. Candace De Puy, Los Angeles
By Candace De Puy on 10/18/2008 at 5:20:40

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