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Sex can't get any safer than having it with yourself
Like you, dear readers, I was apparently too busy exploring south of the border to even realize it, but I just found out that May was National Masturbation Month.
Celebrating the safest of sex, plus what to do when dates collide
This explains a lot: May was National Masturbation Month, first held by the San Francisco-based sex shop Good Vibrations in 1995, and celebrated nationwide. (Some places even hold Masturbate-A-Thons to raise money for local HIV- and AIDS-prevention organizations.) Is that why everyone's been so giddy of late?
Our anthropological observer of sex trends busies her fingers . . . with the world of raunchy texts. Plus, friends with benefits?
Blogging, vlogging, and social-networking have already hit orange-alert levels on the oversharing meter. Now pushing things into the red are "sext messages."
UPDATE
A sharp-eyed reader caught an omission in one of Your Secret Admirer's previous columns.
Polyamorist shares her thoughts
Katie, a queer 24-year-old artist and activist, shares her thoughts about polyamory.
Being open-minded about open relationships
One of the cool things about being astonishingly single is that you can experiment, both with actual humans, and with ideas.
Field Notes: Observations and stories about sex and dating in the 21st century
I'm obsessed with talking about sex and dating. You're obsessed with it too, whether you like to admit it or not.
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